How A 40s Single Lady Can Strike Conversations With 40s Single Men In Coffee Shops

How A 40s Single Lady Can Strike Conversations With 40s Single Men In Coffee Shops

The perpetuated myth that when a woman chases a man she lowers her self-respect is out the window.  Educated and exposed women, women who can strike up conversations without feeling inferior, can easily start a conversation with a man they fancy and that eventually leads to a budding relationship. Though that is true, yet most middle-aged women find it difficult, even when they know what to say, to find quality 40s and 50s single men to date.

Yet, the easiest means of setting up a date is to form the habit of getting into intelligent discussions with people around you wherever you found yourself.  Do not discuss religion in coffee shops.  There are always many contemporary issues to discuss.

Yeah, it may seem a mountain climb to strike a conversation with a total stranger. Yet, you can ask a stranger sitting next to you what time it was.  The ice can melt that way.

While in the order line in your favorite coffee shop nothing stops you from asking anyone one close to you some harmless questions like “Hello, what pastry would you recommend for me here, been at a loss what to really take away?"  And when you get to the cashier, show your sweet smile, they will smile back.  You may be the only one to recognize that he or she is human and not a machine.}

If you display a warm disposition, the people in line will see that you are a friendly person.  Such attitude appeals to middle aged men a lot.  They are actually interested in a companion who is personable and chatty.  Your looks are secondary to middle aged men, what they are after is someone who can make them happy.

When the coffee-barista attends to you, thank him or her with an eye contact while receiving your order.  People will take note of your good manners - single middle-aged men like such a female person; they do not want indifferent females.  Most middle-aged men having seen it all and are only interested in decorum, love and care.

If you start today to practice singles social ice melting conversations with good manners you will soon land a desirable middle-aged single man who will appreciate your manners and cotton you.