What You Should Know About Dating a Man With Trust Issues

What You Should Know About Dating a Man With Trust Issues

Ladies are not the only ones that can be cheated in a relationship, men also get cheated.  Men are most likely to carry the pain of cheating too far.  The aim of this article is to help you deal with trust issues when dating someone who suffers from pain that engenders  trust issues.


Lets say you are presently dating a man who has had a previous terminated relationship due to cheating by his unfaithful partner, you may not know that you are  dealing with  serious trust issues.  It takes men who has been cheated a longer time than it does the ladies  to recover their ability to  trust.

It is easier for women  to overcome cheating  than men because it is easier for women to  try again - biology may have something to do with this phenomenon. However, researchers have indicated that it is probably due to women's ability to share their feelings with fellow women.  It is said that women talk  a lot, speaking an average of twenty thousand words per day, while men talk less and  speak an average of seven thousand words each day.  For the above reason, women are able  to process emotional encumbrances easier than men do.

If you' find that your guy has trust issues, note that  he is easily mistrustful about women because of his past experience.  This guy will  be unlike your previous dates.  He'll exhibit insecurities that produce behavior hard for you to comprehend.  You will mostly find him being intermittently hot and cold. Realize that he does not behave that way because of you.   If you truly really want this guy because you truly like him  and believe that you help him regain his trust, then hang on and to do things to banish his trust issues. Bear in mind that this will take some time and patience.

Having said all the above, you may be asking: how do I date a man who's been cuckolded? Well, I do not see any other way you can succeed with him except by earning  his trust, as a  first step. You must realize that trust issues engenders insecurities,  paranoia and jealousy. The easiest way to find out how to help him regain his trust with you is to put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself what would a man whom you mistrust do to make you feel secured with him?  Now you may think that it would take quite a lot do to get a mistrustful person to become trustful again, but the truth is you really have to regain HIS trust with your behavior and attitude.  You have to prove to him that you are the opposite of his estranged lover