If you happen to fall in love with an older man, and spend lots of time writing flirtatious text messages or e-mails without the slightest idea of whether he is into you or not, this article is written to help you know whether he is actually in love with you or merely acting to deceive you. No matter how exciting your conversations, if he is not in love with you, you are merely wasting your time and liable to a heartbreak eventually.
You must not make the mistake many women make by holding an affluent older man in very high esteem, as a great catch, without being sure of the depth of regard he has for you, rather try to find out what he really thinks of you, and what he wants from you. It is a relationship sin to take a man for granted in terms of how much he loves you.
A little while after you began dating or even months after, he may begin to show hints for a more serious relationship if he thinks you are good enough for a long-term relationship, so it is up to you to pay attention to his intentions and behave appropriately. Senior dates who play hot and cold usually have trust issues, derived from an antecedent failed relationship, especially if the last girl had cheated them.
For instance, he could suddenly become less available, stop calling you more frequently than was earlier the case, or stop taking you out. Oops, is his interest in you waning? In addition, if you get a chance to meet with him he begins to talk about your girl friends instead of you. As soon as you notice those changes, you should quickly adjust your stance without being confrontational. You need not waste any time wondering, ‘what’s going on’. Men are also afraid that you may not really be interested in them, so even if you are but do not show it, it could lead your man to think otherwise. So show him that you really care and he will return your affection. If he does not, go away.
Having said all that, the very first thing you should do before falling headlong for a senior date is find out what was his first impression of you—what he felt when he first met you. If his answer shows that he appreciated you the first time, it means he can develop on his first impression if your attitude towards him is positive.
All the above show that dating demands some work, and if you consider all the hassles and all the time involved, you will see that it is not worth it if true commitment is not part of a relationship.
Bottom line is to show love and care for your senior date on his good and bad times. This is why you must first determine what type of man you are dating, whether all the effort required to make such a relationship work is worth it. Do not waste your precious time on a worthless relationship.
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